Goltitilar Kiss it gently, while holding her close to you. Notify me of new posts via email. Her group of friends were in a circle talking right in front of us a meter or so awaywe were out of the circle. Yes- ladder s set a precedence for compliance, and they are a great way to gain more compliance than if the PUA just asked the real compliance test right off the bat. I m trying to get my kino game in order so I was surprised ken sent me the link about it. There are some women who have a negative anchor lladder their breasts.
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Overt Class 1 There is an unmistakable recurring pattern throughout the DEL: incidental kino, followed by overt kino. Overt means open to view or knowledge; not concealed or secret. While incidental kino is usually done in a context which masks your intention, overt kino is not. The incidental kino which precedes it creates the familiarity necessary for the overt kino to be accepted. Incidental Class 2 Class 2 kino involves any contact which takes place on her torso or legs.
This is slightly more intimate than class 1, but does not include erogenous zones such as her breasts, crotch or inner thighs. Those areas are not paid any direct attention until the escalation ramp - to be defined later. Overt Class 2 Overt class 2 kino is usually done while sitting down. This class of kino should be done in a protective, almost romantic manner.
Incidental Class 3 Her hair, face and neck are the regions included in class 3. Many guys make the common mistake of touching these areas too soon, with a girl they first met. Girls are surprisingly protective of their hair, face and neck placing these relatively high on the ladder.
Another common mistake is that more experienced guys will generally skip this step altogether, only to face last minute resistance later on. Overt Class 3 The manner in which kino is delivered in overt class 3, is very direct.
It is meant to prepare her for kissing, and is done in a very slow, gentle and romantic way. Most of the time you should be sitting down, relaxed and maintaining a good sexual state and strong eye contact.
The duration of the ramp should be about 10 - 30 minutes. Start the ramp very quickly once you have complete isolation in a sex location. Kissing Start kissing from a very close proximity. Ideally you should already be in a suitable position for kissing before you try. A technique for building sexual tension - move closely in, slowly as if you might kiss her, and then move away and start talking about something else. A technique to initiate kissing - try placing your finger just underneath her chin and pulling her mouth towards yours.
Kissing should be light and short at first. You should be the one to pull away first. Kissing Her Neck Once you have kissed her for a bit, move down to her neck.
Kiss it gently, while holding her close to you. Depending on how rough you want to set the mood, feel free to throw in some gentle biting too. Touching the Bare Skin of Her Back Once you have established kissing both on her mouth and neck, move your hands to her waist and underneath her shirt.
Continue to hold her close to you, now with your hands directly on her back. Stomach to Stomach Now that you have established touching her skin, below her shirt, simply move your hand to the front, and lift her shirt, exposing only her stomach. At the same time lift your shirt as well so that your abdomen is in direct contact with hers.
It seems innocent, but will meanwhile trigger intense sexual feelings inside of her. Kissing her Body Having her shirt pulled up affords the opportunity of moving downwards to kiss and caress the bare flesh of her abdomen.
Start kissing her there, along the sides, and move upwards. Touching and kissing the breasts is optional. It is not necessary, and in some cases can be detrimental to your progress. There are some women who have a negative anchor to their breasts. Inch toward their breasts and feel her reaction. If she becomes increasingly turned on, then go for it. If she starts to close down, skip the breasts until you are already having sex.
Incidentally Stimulate Vagina While you are kissing her body, you can position yourself between her legs and use your midsection to rub against her vagina. If you are kissing her mouth you can position your thigh to stimulate her vagina. You can also be kissing her body and reach between her legs and plant your hand on the bed below her. Then use your forearm to stimulate her vagina. Direct Vaginal Stimulation from Behind Inside Panties Once you have really amped her up by incidentally rubbing her vagina, move your hand around to the back and slip it inside her panties and touch her naked ass.
Next, move your hand all the way down and reach her vagina. Start first by touching the area around it. Then proceed to finger her from behind. Women never expect to have it happen this way. Trying to reach your hand down the front of her pants will often be resisted, but from the rear is unexpected and effective.
If she is wearing a skirt or dress, you will instead move your hand up the back of her leg, and reach her vagina that way. Finger her and then proceed directly to step Direct Vaginal Stimulation in Front Get her heated up by fingering her, and then when once she is sufficiently turned on, undo the front of her pants with your other hand.
Since she is engaged by the fact that you are fingering her, she will rarely object to your simultaneous undoing of her pants. Remove Her Pants, Sex The idea is to get her so heated up by fingering her, that she makes a commitment to sex, verbally or physically.
There are a few ways to go about this. Too many times a guy will stop fingering her, and then try to take off her pants, only to get more resistance. Another option is to skip the question and directly tell her to take off her pants. Usually with your fingers busy at work, she will be more than compliant. You will interpret this as the permission to get a condom and have sex with her, and it will most likely be met without opposition.
The point is, any time you reach a higher level through situational relevance, it unlocks the lower levels automatically. A good example of this is in a loud club or bar, you can reach in and talk directly into her ear, getting incidental class 3 kino, touching the side of your face to hers.
You are speaking to her in a way that is dictated by the situation, so it is accepted. If you accomplish this without her resistance, all lower levels will become unlocked.
Execution of the Escalation Ramp The escalation ramp, which consists of steps is most effectively executed in isolation in a sex location. It is not efficient to start the ramp with the intention of finishing it at a later time. This is because these sexual behaviors were formed thousands of years ago when we were still living in caves. By executing the ladder correctly, you are matching her genetic sexual programming and giving it to her the exact way that she wants it.
It is acceptable to do the first part of the ramp - kissing - outside of a suitable sex location, but only if you plan on completing the ramp later in that same meeting. Incidental Vs. Overt Kino There is always a question as to how to execute these different pieces of kino. In general, you should spend most of your time in the incidental phase, getting her comfortable with contact in those regions. This pattern of incidental followed by overt is almost like a Jedi mind trick. Use the incidental kino in a very non-invasive, very much under the radar manner, and her subconscious will automatically accept the subsequent overt kino.
Since she accepts the overt kino, it is through a process of backwards rationalization that her attraction for you increases. The key is to make the overt kino extremely short.
Each overt phase in the initial ladder should have a duration of seconds. Keep it short and sweet. In a sense, each group of girls has a ladder, which represents your escalation with that group.
Keep in mind, however, this does not include the escalation ramp, although it has been observed to happen with kissing quite readily. DiCarlo Escalation Ladder as a Standalone Method The DEL provides both a sufficient framework for escalation and a linear step-by-step process such that it could be used as a standalone method.
You can use one of the many popular verbal structures out there, but basic conversational skills will suffice, given an elementary understanding of the ladder. There is an inherent value and attractiveness to a man who can escalate in such an intelligent and socially aware manner, which is why your verbal content does not matter very much when using this method.
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DiCarlo Escalation Ladder
Goltilkis Then use your forearm to stimulate her vagina. We all know that eye contact is extremely attractive and show confident. It just so happened that this girl never threw any resistance escalxtion way. This is rare but does occur. If she is wearing a skirt or dress, you will instead move your hand up the back of her leg, and reach her vagina that way. Vin DiCarlo is one of the absolute masters at controlling logistics in order to lead to one place, his bed! Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Does it have different content to other products?
Kino Escalation Ladder
Full Definition: A kino escalation ladder is a sequence of physical steps that a PUA uses to get from first touching a woman, all the way to sex. Many guys that get into the seduction community are fairly clueless when it comes to how to touch a woman in an attractive and appropriate manner, so many PUA gurus specifically break down how to touch a woman. The basic process of a kino escalation ladder is to gradually move from subtle and innocuous forms of touch, to more overt forms of kino. The idea behind the kino escalation ladder is similar to a yes-ladder , in that slowly escalating kino builds compliance momentum , so she is more likely to accept future physical advances.